Having sexual intercorse with other men even if you’re married is completely fine. Humans are polygamous animals by nature society has forced us to be monogamous and thus enforced marriage. Don’t let marriage stop you from exploring yourself and your body to it’s true potential. If your husband isn’t able to satisfy your sexual needs, it’s his fault, not yours, he should be apologetic. Marriage doesn’t means you’re bound to have sex with only one person or gender. These are norms set by society break them ASAP. You can have sex with others but still love your husband and family, sex and love are not the same. The patriarchal society will always try to hold you back, just deny. Enjoy your life to the fullest.