My ex was a possessive man, I don’t know if he was just possessive or he had an underlying condition, like ment or something. When we started dating I was finding it cute and all, because he would call me between intervals like every three hours to check up on me, it was loving and my girlfriends were all gushing and shouting “God when” up and down. He would call to ask me where I was, what I was doing, who I was with almost all the time. I started getting worried when he would request video calls to make sure I was home when I said I was. At first I thought that he had no trust in me and I’ve never given him a reason to mistrust me.we actually quarreled over it and he promised to trust me more. Things did not change but I felt like it would be unreasonable to leave the relationship for that, he graduated into asking me what I was putting on everyday, “I don’t like this, wear this, remove this”, omoMy ex was a possessive man, I don’t know if he was just possessive or he had an underlying condition, like ment or something. When we started dating I was finding it cute and all, because he would call me between intervals like every three hours to check up on me, it was loving and my girlfriends were all gushing and shouting “God when” up and down. He would call to ask me where I was, what I was doing, who I was with almost all the time. I started getting worried when he would request video calls to make sure I was home when I said I was. At first I thought that he had no trust in me and I’ve never given him a reason to mistrust me.we actually quarreled over it and he promised to trust me more. Things did not change but I felt like it would be unreasonable to leave the relationship for that, he graduated into asking me what I was putting on everyday, “I don’t like this, wear this, remove this”, omo

I dressed decently but not in overflowing gowns but he made it clear he wanted that, if I remember say I change my wardrobe for am, I go wan slap myself, he just wanted my life to be centered around him and just him, ” who are you talking to? Who is Stephen? Who is Angela? One-time like that he said he just wanted to marry me and keep me in his mansion where no one would see me except him, he would provide everything I need but I’ll be for him alone, it felt weird and at the back of my mind I knew he meant it but I still did not leave him. Not until one hot afternoon, I was escorting my mother’s brother, my uncle, he was actually young cos my grandfather the great doer, did something in old age, we were going to the bus stop where he was supposed to board a bus and go, I hugged him after he got his ticket and said goodbye, only for me to get home and see my man in my apartment unannounced, he wasn’t smiling at all, I wanted to run at first cos I was getting weird vibes but I stayed. We went inside and he began to accuse me of cheating on him, I tried to explain but he wouldn’t listen, he was literally crying and before I knew it, I don collect hot slap, “heee!!” My head was still spinning when he probably realized what he did and started saying sorry, I did not waste any time before I ran out of my apartment, that was the last straw, I can’t take that, ” slap on top nothing?” That’s how I broke up with him after I told him over the phone who the guy was. I no dey forget this incident at all, if I see anything that looks like it I disappear.2. I dressed decently but not in overflowing gowns but he made it clear he wanted that, if I remember say I change my wardrobe for am, I go wan slap myself, he just wanted my life to be centered around him and just him, ” who are you talking to? Who is Stephen? Who is Angela? One-time like that he said he just wanted to marry me and keep me in his mansion where no one would see me except him, he would provide everything I need but I’ll be for him alone, it felt weird and at the back of my mind I knew he meant it but I still did not leave him. Not until one hot afternoon, I was escorting my mother’s brother, my uncle, he was actually young cos my grandfather the great doer, did something in old age, we were going to the bus stop where he was supposed to board a bus and go, I hugged him after he got his ticket and said goodbye, only for me to get home and see my man in my apartment unannounced, he wasn’t smiling at all, I wanted to run at first cos I was getting weird vibes but I stayed. We went inside and he began to accuse me of cheating on him, I tried to explain but he wouldn’t listen, he was literally crying and before I knew it, I don collect hot slap, “heee!!” My head was still spinning when he probably realized what he did and started saying sorry, I did not waste any time before I ran out of my apartment, that was the last straw, I can’t take that, ” slap on top nothing?” That’s how I broke up with him after I told him over the phone who the guy was. I no dey forget this incident at all, if I see anything that looks like it I disappear.