I am burnt out. I feel exhausted tonight. I am constantly 24/7 stuck in a house with 4 kids, one being a toddler and the other a 4 month old, all 4 want to be up under me 24/7 the older 2 don’t listen…… I can’t even get someone to watch my kids for a few hours while I run fucking errands. I am literally losing my fucking shit and yes I know I had these kids but where in the fuck is my break, better yet my village? I am sick of everything and everyone at this point

I was chatting with my boyfriend who is in the UK and he asked me if have done any abortion before. I told him I will answer that question next time we see each other in person. I’ve asked my close friends and she advised me to tell him the truth. That it will make him to trust me more and he will know I’m fertile. I’ve done 18 abortions. Should I tell him the truth? Or I should just say 2.

My husband is divorcing me because I cheated. Can I get half of what he owns without getting also the kids? I want to have fun with the money and I think the kids would take too much of my time.

My bf(31)and I(22) have been together for 2 years now. Things have escalated to the point I am feeling scared about our future together. He’s never hit me, but it’s more of a verbal and mental thing. He will give me Silent treatment for days, he will ignore me or say really hurtful things about me for no reason. I’ll give an example; he was making food and putting raw meat on the counter. I said, ” Oh babe that’s kind of nasty we have a cutting board, there can be germs ya nasty”(I said it in a joking way And was laughing). He responded by saying, “you always ruin everything for me, and I’m gross? You’re the one that Is actually disgusting by bleeding once a month from your body and making nasty jokes. That’s the stuff I will think about if we break up.” Maybe not the best example, but it’s always like this. He says something 1000x more hurtful. And then gives me the silent treatment. There’s a list of things I can’t do literally *Cant go to any sort of bar(even with him) *my sister isn’t allowed to stay (they got into an argument) *I’m not allowed to have alcohol when I want, he has to approve first *I’m not allowed to watch tv shows/videos I like in my free time because I’m wasting opportunities to get a job *I shouldn’t wear makeup in public *I should dye my hair blonde instead of my natural dark brown Anyway, THE MAIN POINT is that I want to leave. I’m in the interview process and I know I will need like $5,000 for the first and last payment + utilities being turned on and whatever else. Do you guys think it would be better to get this job and slowly save money and leave OR leave as soon as possible to stay with my sister and move into my own place from there? I am heartbroken at the idea of leaving him, as soon as I tell him I’m done he loves bombs me. It’s so hard to……

I am really close with my nephew who is 13. We have had an incredibly close relationship for years now, and I have noticed that he has given me the role of trusted adult/confident. We talk about a lot of things, from basic knowledge to different worldviews and opinions, etc, to things that are bothering him. He really trusts me and I have worked really hard to gain this trust. The problem now is that his mother (my sister) is asking me whether he has spoken to me recently about anything that is troubling him. He definitely has, about a couple of things, and each time he has approached me I have given him appropriate advice. I have also urged him to speak to his parents if he feels comfortable enough to, he knows they only want the best for him. Here’s my conundrum. I feel like I am in a tricky situation here because I do not feel it is appropriate to break his trust and privacy. He came to me because he could trust me. However, as a parent myself, I would absolutely hate to think that my child was confiding in another adult instead of me (because I would want to help them). I would also ultimately understand, and be happy that they have someone other than me whom they can trust, but it would be pretty upsetting to be kept out of it. I don’t want to lie to my sister but I don’t want to break the trust we have. For context, he is having relationship problems and some bullying. His parents are aware of the bullying but clearly not the relationship problems.

Is there a way to get birth control without talking to your parents about it? I’m 17 and I want birth control because accidents are bad, but I don’t want to talk to my parents.

So I and my husband have sex once or twice every two weeks. We’re extremely busy and have a child. My husband has stopped initiating it and just waits for when I ask for it 😩 When I do initiate it, it’s always after I’ve had a “sex dream.” These dreams are so vivid and they feel so real that I sometimes have an orgasm and always want sex afterward (let me know if you’ve experienced this, it has happened to me since college consistently). Anyways, because my husband is well endowed and I go such long stretches without sex, I’m in a lot of pain afterward. What lubricant do you all recommend?

I’m trying to get into, I guess to call it, sugar baby things? I mainly wanted to find people who wanted to buy pics/vids. Not looking to do things in person, just keep it online. I started trying this months ago and had no luck, but my friend just started last week and she’s already made so much money. Yes, I do have a job, but I want to do this as a side thing. Is there any way I could find other people who are willing to do this?

My boyfriend’s 19yo daughter moved into my house with us. She’s disrespectful and promiscuous; I caught her with a boy and she begged me not to tell her dad. I did. He raged. She revealed she’s his side chick, NOT his child. They sleep in MY bed and refuse to move out.

Dated an older man, (6mos) his wife passed last year. He had her pics in the house & it made me feel uncomfortable, so I left. I came by again unannounced, and the wife was there, ALIVE. Huge fight. He says he has Alzheimer’s & don’t remember me. I’m pregnant.